Avoidable Misunderstanding

Are you angry at someone that you love or wondering why someone that you love is angry at you?
Are you experiencing some form of conflict?
Do you feel like you are not getting the attention that you deserve?
Are you curious about how your misunderstandings can be resolved?
Are you wondering what to do to make your relationships work?
Do you feel that there is something you are not getting right?
Are you concerned that your efforts are not being appreciated?
Do you feel that something is wrong?
Don’t loose hope.
Things may not really be as bad as they seem to be.
Has it ever occurred to you that everyone is created unique?
Have you realized that your preferences can differ from those of your loved ones.
Can’t you see that it’s okay to have different approaches to things?
Yes. We all have different styles.
Having different opinions doesn’t necessarily mean that things are so bad.
Not having things go exactly as you like them doesn’t mean that they have gone wrong.
Things can start getting better when we begin to accept our differences as uniqueness.
Our expression of love may differ and that is why we must appreciate the ones we love rather than judge them.
We can agree to the styles of our loved ones and we can give them room to see our perspectives without picking up a fight.
When we realize how this works, we can both understand and communicate better.
Don’t ever think that your opinion is considered trash because your loved one has another opinion.
You are worth so much.
Let you understanding always be that it can only get better.
Misunderstanding can be avoidable.
Avoidable misunderstanding
Tochukwu Nnamonu
Teeceecounsel 

About teeceecounsel

Who am I really? Can that be defined yet? Probably by the time I'm long gone and all the pieces of my activities are compiled and analysed then you can know what you want to know about me. Meanwhile, I write. Not because I love writing but because I love people. I love to care and love to share. I'm a deep thinker and I love to believe in the impossible. The ideal is attainable and a shot at it must be given. Don't say 'It won't work' rather ask 'how will it work? Nobody is ever doomed unless they made the choice. To resist good and to adopt evil is already doom. To loose hope is to choose doom but to believe that every step is a passing phase leading towards your hope is to choose progress. I may go on and on but my posts say it all. I don't force you to agree, I only say enjoy!
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14 Responses to Avoidable Misunderstanding

  1. Wise Hearted says:

    I’m 73 , been married 56 years, and we still misunderstand each other, less than we use to though so that makes misunderstanding not so bad.

    • That’s the spirit!
      Misunderstandings may be inevitable but our response to them determines how things go afterwards.
      The sad truth is that many people exaggerate or magnify Misunderstandings and things go sour from there.
      It’s a privilege having you share your experience with us.
      We wish you many more beautiful years together.
      Thank you so much for stopping by.

  2. rarasaur says:

    An important reminder, thank you. 🙂

  3. Mabel Kwong says:

    Very well said. We all have different styles and different opinions. If we can all let each other speak and take each other’s opinion into consideration, we will have better times together.

    • So true.
      Life will have less strife and all the tension from conflicts will not have to be, if only we can do as you have said.
      We’ll keep doing our bit to get better every day.
      Thank you so much for stopping by.

  4. kinge says:

    Questions at the beginning are thought provoking and the post has a wonderful ending. Thanks.

  5. It’s better to be controversial than to be inconsequential

  6. da-AL says:

    great post. communication is never perfect — amazing we humans get along at all lol

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