Are you angry at someone that you love or wondering why someone that you love is angry at you?
Are you experiencing some form of conflict?
Do you feel like you are not getting the attention that you deserve?
Are you curious about how your misunderstandings can be resolved?
Are you wondering what to do to make your relationships work?
Do you feel that there is something you are not getting right?
Are you concerned that your efforts are not being appreciated?
Do you feel that something is wrong?
Don’t loose hope.
Things may not really be as bad as they seem to be.
Has it ever occurred to you that everyone is created unique?
Have you realized that your preferences can differ from those of your loved ones.
Can’t you see that it’s okay to have different approaches to things?
Yes. We all have different styles.
Having different opinions doesn’t necessarily mean that things are so bad.
Not having things go exactly as you like them doesn’t mean that they have gone wrong.
Things can start getting better when we begin to accept our differences as uniqueness.
Our expression of love may differ and that is why we must appreciate the ones we love rather than judge them.
We can agree to the styles of our loved ones and we can give them room to see our perspectives without picking up a fight.
When we realize how this works, we can both understand and communicate better.
Don’t ever think that your opinion is considered trash because your loved one has another opinion.
You are worth so much.
Let you understanding always be that it can only get better.
Misunderstanding can be avoidable.
Avoidable misunderstanding
Tochukwu Nnamonu
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I’m 73 , been married 56 years, and we still misunderstand each other, less than we use to though so that makes misunderstanding not so bad.
That’s the spirit!
Misunderstandings may be inevitable but our response to them determines how things go afterwards.
The sad truth is that many people exaggerate or magnify Misunderstandings and things go sour from there.
It’s a privilege having you share your experience with us.
We wish you many more beautiful years together.
Thank you so much for stopping by.
An important reminder, thank you. 🙂
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Thank you so much for stopping by and for appreciating.
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Very well said. We all have different styles and different opinions. If we can all let each other speak and take each other’s opinion into consideration, we will have better times together.
So true.
Life will have less strife and all the tension from conflicts will not have to be, if only we can do as you have said.
We’ll keep doing our bit to get better every day.
Thank you so much for stopping by.
Questions at the beginning are thought provoking and the post has a wonderful ending. Thanks.
Thank you so much for stopping by and for appreciating.
I believe that questions are among the best ways to get people to give things a thought.
Let’s keep working towards having the time to keep our thoughts arranged and shared.
Welcome. True, questions help in giving attention to situations and thoughts.
Thank you once again.
It’s better to be controversial than to be inconsequential
If you say so.
Only that our impact must be positive and beneficial to all.
great post. communication is never perfect — amazing we humans get along at all lol
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Man does not live in isolation.
We get along somehow.
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