If beauty is in the eye of the beholder then it would vary from beholder to beholder.
You really don’t have to pattern yourself to match the description of any particular person’s fancy.
Optimize yourself to your best personal description of beauty and the beholders that appretiate you as such, are the ones in whose company, you can comfortably be yourself.
If one man’s meat is another man’s poison then displeasing yourself to please others is simply eating another man’s meat that happens to be your poison.
Love and respect everyone that you encounter and treat them as you would treat yourself or expect yourself to be treated.
Try not to impose your standards on anybody; it could just be their poisons, and try not to subject yourself to the standards of other people that contradict your true values.
If you can live your life in such a way that you admire yourself, then feel free to express yourself respectfully and lovingly, your own admirers will emerge.
I consider myself a beholder when working towards my beauty.
I ensure that my actions and inactions do not hurt anyone else.
I go ahead and do what I consider best for myself and everyone.
I stick to my own idea of moderation and balance because the one who created me unique left an operation manual in my heart.
Guess what? Not everybody loves me that way, but those who do love me so much.
If I have to pretend, then it’s not the right place for me.
If I have to violate my own values then it’s not the right thing to do.
If I will feel bad about the available things to do, then the right thing to do is nothing.
But if my action or inaction would bring me joy and work for the good of every other person concerned, then that is what I must do.
When I have refined thoughts and expressions enough to have peace and confidence in myself, than I can consider myself fit to associate with anybodyelse.
Our insecurities often come from within us, not necessarily the people around us.
If we can refine ourselves by aligning with the truth all the time and sticking with the best alternatives, we would automatically become a source of inspiration to those around us.
You really don’t have to flood yourself with associations and activities to find peace, joy and fulfilment; all of those flow from within.
Don’t blame predicaments on other people; take responsibility of everything that concerns you.
Don’t be an imitation, become an original.
Refine yourself to the point of excellence that you expect from others, associate with those that share the same values, dissociate from values that contradict the truth and remain both faithful and cheerful
Become the standard and you will stand out!
Advice or admonition on how to attract and acquire beauty, admiration, self esteem, peace, joy and fulfilment with quotes and analogies on self discovery, self image, self optimization and standards.
Advice: Beauty, Admiration, Standards And Self Optimization