Five Reasons Why A Marriage Does Not Remain As Colourful As The Wedding That Instituted It

1) Most men and women that get married, often assume that feelings will always remain the same. They hokd unto the illusions of “love at first sight”. Commitment to a spouse is hinged on love that goes beyond feelings.

2) Many men and women get married to each other, on the assumption that their spouses will change from who they are, to become, who they want them to be.

3) Many men and women assume that all the work of keeping their partners excited and happy, ends the moment the marriage is established. Husbands and wives, must remain charming to each other, for as long as they want to remain together.

4) Romance does not pay the bills, neither does, “you know I love you”, put food on the table.

5) Marriage is more thorough and demanding than courtship, it would expose all the hidden skeletons in the couples’ cupboards and uncover all the dirt swept under the carpet. Marriages built without secrets, have more chances of remaining colourful and sweet.

Avoid assumptions, eliminate lies and be realistic.

Do not expect what you cannot create.

If you must sustain it, then you must both tolerate and accomodate.

Marriages are colourful and sweet, with collaboration.

Never overlook these reasons why a marriage does not remain as colourful as the wedding that instituted it.

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Who am I really? Can that be defined yet? Probably by the time I'm long gone and all the pieces of my activities are compiled and analysed then you can know what you want to know about me. Meanwhile, I write. Not because I love writing but because I love people. I love to care and love to share. I'm a deep thinker and I love to believe in the impossible. The ideal is attainable and a shot at it must be given. Don't say 'It won't work' rather ask 'how will it work? Nobody is ever doomed unless they made the choice. To resist good and to adopt evil is already doom. To loose hope is to choose doom but to believe that every step is a passing phase leading towards your hope is to choose progress. I may go on and on but my posts say it all. I don't force you to agree, I only say enjoy!
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7 Responses to Five Reasons Why A Marriage Does Not Remain As Colourful As The Wedding That Instituted It

  1. Aurora HSP says:

    Collaboration, one word that says it all. Any team will unglue without it. Good post!

    • Thanks much, Aurora HSP. I really love that word; collaboration. It always brings synergy to mind! One will chase a thousand but two will chase ten thousand! Marriage should enhance productivity and fulfilment! I appreciate your sweet words!

  2. Cris says:

    Nicely put. I hope you don’t mind, but I’m going to send this around to my friends via email, along with your URL. I’ve already twittered it.

    • Thanks much, Cris. I’m glad the information is relevant. Feel free to share it to your friends; information is for sharing. Remember to put a link, as reference, to the source. I appreciate your stopping by! 🙂

  3. sholashade says:

    Nice one! True talk!

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