You Are A Perfect And A Faultless “You”. You Are Flawless!
Faultless? Flawless? Perfect?
Have you had experiences or ideas that conflict with these?
It is not possible? What is this piece all about? But nobody is perfect! Can a human being really be flawless? Is there a possibility of being faultless?
I’m just wondering what thoughts came to your mind, the moment you came across this piece. But there is no need to worry, my thoughts can speak for themselves. Read on.
Do you have reason to question the possibility of perfection, faultlessness and flawlessness?
Have you ever had a perfect picture of an experience you wanted?
Have you ever imagined a faultless personality?
Have you ever thought about flawlessness?
You probably have, or you probably have not. But if you can dream it, then you can achieve it. If you can believe it, then you can receive it.
Somewhere deep down, we have a perfect picture of what is right and what is not. Sometimes we get deeper to what we want and what we don’t want. But somewhere along the line, they get challenged by what we often mistake as reality. Society is not reality, circumstances are not reality. All of these are factors that can be interpreted in different ways by different people. Reality is made up by a combination of our circumstances and our interpretations of them on the basis of our beliefs, values, knowlege and very many other personal things.
Reality starts from within and springs out. The same sound that makes one child to cry makes another to laugh. The same heights that some people are excited to climb are the same heights that trigger fear and intense fright in some other people. “One man’s meat” they say, “is another man’s poison”. We are all unique. Your yardstick for perfection may not be mine but you probably have a picture that depicts perfection.
We often know exactly what to do and how to do it. We often know exactly when we’ve done things wrong. We know when we have exaggerated and incident and we know when we are making up excuses. Right within, we are wired to check ourselves by ourselves but we often prefer to be dependent. We grow too linient with ourselves that we don’t even live up to our own personal standards. We try to live like some other person and eventually get frustrated in the process. We set certain standards for ourselves and when we wake up on the wrong side of our beds, we change our minds on them. We promise to do things right and to stick to the best but somewhere along the line, we weaver and fumble. We loose confidence and then we loose focus.
We are complex beings, configured for perfection. Activating our individual best produces a collective wonder. We can be just perfect by being true to ourselves. We can connect with others and produce more amazing results.
Faults and flaws come from living below our own standards or forcing ourselves into other people’s moulds. We are unique and that is why we conflict. We impose our standards on others or allow the opinions of others to be imposed on us. We believe certain things but follow the crowd. We complain about certain things but just keep doing them, either because it’s an easy way out or because it’s popular opinion.
This stifles uniqueness and breeds faults and flaws. You are configured to be perfect, you can fix your own faults. You can live a flawless life by being true to yourself. Live up to your dreams and do what’s best for you. Without compromise, you will have a perfect life.
You don’t have to conform to the patterns of your habits or the concepts of your surrounding.
LIVE AN IDEAL LIFE!
The standard that matches your definition of perfection, is the least you are expected to be.
Whenever you have an ideal idea and pursue accomplishing it, you would always find a more ideal idea.
The blueprint that seems like perfection to you, will soon be outdated to you, if only you live up to it’s stipulations and do what must be done. You always surpass your expectations if you act approriately.
If you can imagine your perfect self, then you can even be better.
Why do you do the things you do? Why do you tolerate your flaws? Those flaws are alien to you, you induced them by nuture. Nature on the other hand, accords the human being an ability to adapt to change, by changing. You are dynamic and have an ability that permits you to change along with things or to change things to match an ideal. Conforming means being changed into the ideas and patterns that are already in existence and considered normal. Being transformed on the other hand means becoming new, in accordance with an ideal. This ideal may probably be an entirely new concept or personality that may or may not have been in existence.
You are made unique, and searching outward for solutions, ideas and ideals would always lead you towards the existent. Whereas, searching inwards lead you towards unique answers and solutions. If you find love within yourself, people’s actions would not determine your reaction. You would remain who you are irrespective of circumstances. If you are true to yourself, you will not indulge in those habits that make you feel irresponsible. Whatever is wrong within you is wrong, whether or not there is somebody watching you. Being true to yourself means living up to your own best standards and keeping up with your own ideals.
Faults are errors or abnormalities. Faults are not part of our configuration. We are faultless and flawless at our best, but we don’t even believe in ourselves or our thoughts. A transformed or renewed mind can manifest perfection through the body. Searching yourself for the best, and living up to it, makes you the best “you” that you can be.
Never mistake your faults for your nature, the bulk of what we consider faults and flaws come with nuture and not nature.
The world and it’s thwarted societies directly and indirectly impose concepts and ideas on us. It makes us misplace priorities and alter or even reverse sequences. We often feel hurt when we regard ourselves more highly than others. We wonder how they could have treated us the way they did and why they could not recognize our worth. We as questions like; does he know who I am? What was she feeling like? How could they take me for granted? Habouring such thoughts and questions in mind often tend to produce reason to feel hurt. Most feelings of hurt, anger, agression and all of such, are directly or indirectly tied to pride. Being more understanding, accomodative and liberal, even in the mind, will automatically play out as being cheerful and nice. So feeling hurt, slighted, disrespected, maltreated or whatever feeling of hurt, often sterms from the fact that we think of ourselves more valuable than others. We consider those around us to be inferior. That’s a thwarted concept that causes flaws or faults in our approach to people and relationships.
On the other hand; panic, fear and doubt, arises from the thought or concept that other people are better than us. We practically seek their approval, lubby for their acceptance and probably strive to replicate their ideals. Anything we do that deviates from the standards of our models begin to appear imperfect to us, even when the conflict with our own personal inner convictions. We ought to look within for approval, and not without. We have to express our own beautiful thoughts, in our own beautiful words and our own beautiful styles and approach. If a picture is what you’ve got, then share it. You must not use a poem like me. If a song or a tune is all you have, share it. Somebody else may have the words while you have the beats or dance steps. We are all unique and somethings come to us naturally. They are good and perfect gifts that we must develope into proficient skill, simply by usage. When gifts come to us naturally, don’t have to copy others to express them. We should not be looking out for gain and profit but satisfaction and fulfilment, until we have something worth sharing to the world. Just keep doing your thing and getting good at it. Those that your uniqueness interests will be attracted to you. You may often feel full of flaws if you venture into becoming a duplicate of another person. Conflicts of convictions and disparity in priority will appear like faults. Working with your own unique style is often misinterpreted by many people as rebellion. Trying had to replicate another person without much success, creates a feeling of inferiority in us. Whoever said we should be the same as every other person? Whoever said that our beautiful differences are flaws? If you are true to yourself you will not disrespect anybody, neither will you indulge in unproductive ventures. What are you copying? Who are you imitating?
You don’t have to live your mentor’s life, just extract his points and move on with them in your life. LIVE YOUR OW LIFE! A mentor is a guide, not a standard. Models are not to be copied, they are just example that we can take cues from. People who have succeeded are simply an evidence that we can succeed too. Their styles must not be our styles but we must be transformed to conform with the ideals imprinted within and not the conventionality, mass produced in the world.
Many people believe that it is possible to eliminate anger completely, that anger can only be managed or controlled. At age fourteen, I believed that I could eliminate anger completely, irrespective of popular opinion. Guess what? It worked! Today, I received a hot slap from a millitary official, but I still kept my calm and was just shocked and surprised by the swift and unexpected slap, but not angry. I cheerfully parted ways with him after he was through with his interrogation and all I was bothered about was that such a millitary man should not be allowed to slap citizens for driving vehicles without a drivers licence. There should have been some other more civilized alternatives. My day has been so beautiful and amazingly, a hot slap added to the day’s excitement. I have enjoyed this angerless life for forteen straight years now. By the way, I’ll be clocking twenty eight years old tomorrow. I hope to compose some more wise birthday wishes for the world!
I am not a random reaction to an action, I am not a random response to a situation. I respond to situations with my uniqueness and the situations should respond to me. My reactions, whether reflex or premeditated must reflect me. Whenever there is a need, my presence should bring my unique provision and wherever there is a problem, my presence should bring my unique solution. In the midst of tension and agression, I bring peace. Not because that is the expected reaction, but because that’s who I am. A foam that soaks up a particular liquid, will always release the same liquid when squeezed. Likewise, if you fumble under pressure, it is because your strength is small. If you fight back when fought, then you are a fighter too. If you abuse people when aroused, then that defines you too. Your body may be flawed by it’s habits and exposures, but with a sound mind, you can redirect it aright. Every part of you has the ability to adapt. Both healing and deformation depict changes. Healing is an adaptation towards the ideal within. Deformation on the other hand is an anormally or an abnormality, where the body adapts towards the imperfect, often externally conceived or induced. Don’t be deformed; be informed! With a renewed mind and a sound mind, you have greatness in you that surpasses the greatness in the world. It is not such that should make you proud but one that will make you relevant and productive. Your ideas can make the world a better place, if you can believe what you receive within and express it, irrespective of rigid norms and unquestionable conventionality.
You have the ability to change both yourself and your circumstances. Will you change towards the ideal imprinted in you or will you change towards the traits and patterns you observe in another unharnessed, untapped and unpruned individual or society?
It is a popular saying, that nobody is perfect. That’s simply because nobody else matches your ideal. You are the perfect “you”. There is an ideal within you, imprinted by the maker Himself. We often doubt it and believe more in the opinion of others or the general opinion that has been moulded by society and agelong traditions. BREAKOUT and distinguish yourself. Do what is right and satisfy your conscience. Manifest your true self at it’s best and you will find out that not only is perfection possible, but that your own idea of perfection is flawed. THERE IS ALWAYS A BETTER WAY!
You are flawless, all that partains to life and true living have been given to us. They are deposited within and can only be activated by us. If without wavering, we act on our true values consistently, nothing would be able to stand in our way.
Consistently be true to yourself and you will attain your best. Your best has no fault, your best is flawless.
You are a perfect and a faultless “you”. You are flawless!