Are you a man or a woman? Discover yourself!
Together they build.
Man gets to spend
woman gets to save
together they invest.
Men keep catching and keep squandering but the moment a woman catches their gaze and keeps it on herself, everything changes.
The changes may be for better or worse but their are numerous variations of the possibilities that exist.
The perfect scenario is that the two shall become one and a third personality emerges.
What is your disposition towards money and material things?
Are you adhesive or cohesive?
Do you always want things for yourself or for other people?
Do you always imagine something new for yourself or are there people you always have in mind whenever you come across something of worth and interest?
When there’s a sudden attack are you more likely to consider defending yourself or another person?
When their is one last slice of bread, would you prefer to eat it all alone or to completely give it to another?
I believe you must have been imagining a balance. You may most probably have called it sharing. That’s the third personality.
Colors sure have various shades and people are often not completely predictable but you sure know the things that predominantly control your decisions as well as your tendencies with or without pressure.
I don’t want to restrict man and woman to gender in this context. I’m just using the roles each of these play in child birth to generate personalities.
Man produces sperm, woman produces eggs.
Sperms launch out in search of eggs to fertilize.
Eggs lie in wait for the sperm to catch and keep.
Man can keep ejaculating sperms for as long as the bank is loaded and production of new sperms never sieze as long as the organs and systems are healthy.
Woman stops producing eggs the moment
fertilization takes place and every concentration is on developing perfect conditions for the formation of zygot and growth to mature foetus.
Man’s system never realizes that there’s a baby coming up somewhere, it is ever ready to keep sending out sperms to as many eggs as are available.
Woman’s system adjusts to ensure that the baby or babies survive(s) without rivals.
Man’s digestive and reproductive systems continue their basic routines irrespective of the fertilization that had taken place.
Woman’s digestive and reproductive systems begin to divide responsibilities strictly for the sustenance of mother and child only.
Man’s system can generate sufficient sperms to conceive numerous children in numerous wombs within the same nine months space that the first fertilization occured.
The woman’s system has no other egg(s) available to receive any other sperm after the one(s) that instigated the first fertilization until after nine months or delivery.
After delivery, the man has no biological feature to assist the child with.
After delivery, the woman has the breast with which to deliver milk to the child.
The man can cuddle, enjoy and direct the child as long as the woman’s roles were properly played.
The woman can cuddle, enjoy and direct the child, whether or not the man’s roles were properly played.
Certain goals require man and woman to accomplish (remember, I don’t mean gender)
they need an initiator or initiators and a supporter or supporters.
They may start as an idea that gets shared, accepted, nutured and deployed.
Ideas are like sperms. When shared with receptive minds, they evolve (that’s like sperm and egg forming zygote).
They need a conducive environment to brood and be hatched (a womb).
In this environment they get all the attention and endorsement that they need before they are brought to lime light.
Usually when babies are born premature they are placed in an incubator until they are mature enough to face reality or the real world.
At certain stages, the man may have neither influence nor access to the very process he initiated but the woman has all her attention and resources concentrated on it.
By the time it is fully developed and deployed, the man can then take charge or contribute his quota, if at all he still has any.
Are you man or woman by nature?
I’m not asking your gender!
Can you recall the first set of questions I asked previously?
Some of us are on one extreme or the other.
We often associate with people on another extreme.
The good thing is that if we work in unity and perfect harmony, we should produce a third personality.
Very often, we don’t necessarily need tangible resources to achieve certain goals, we need personalities.
Certain results come because of the character involved and not necessarily the equipment or strategy.
Some people are a result of certain combination of experiences and processes, so their appearance alone is already a unique solution to certain circumstances.
I think I agree with some people that believe that success is a person and that to succeed you must become success.
Get born again by the right man and woman, then you will fit the description and personality of success.
You options are determined by what you want.
Do you want strength, hope, faith, character, joy, happiness, courage, fulfilment and the likes? Then what you need is to become success. That can open the doors to a whole new world of varieties. The moment you step into a situation, the atmosphere changes and the desired victory is, in one way or the other, eventually arrived at.
If what you want is money, fame, a business, a legacy, clothes, activities, an event, awards, honour and the like? What you need is an aliance with the person or people who can nuture your dream and work at it with you until you have them at your disposal.
Don’t begin to think that any personality is inferior, they all have their roles to play.
The third personality is always a hybrid. I choose to name him balance. Aligning with others can produce him (he is the child; the product of man and woman).
Passing yourself through transforming processes and experiences by being submissive to principles that work makes you become the baby that gets nutured and is deployed at the appointed time or to the required situation. That’s becoming success.
Man can succeed and so can woman; by giving birth to success.
The third personality; balance or success can be born.
Could that be you? Or should we await another?
Become success and succeed!