Impressions Matter

What do you tell yourself
Feeling hurt is not necessarily as a result of an action or an inaction but an impression that the intention was to hurt.

If you blame people’s faults on ignorance or accident, you won’t feel as hurt as you would have felt if you assumed that it was intended to harm you. Not everybody actually has ill intentions for you or do you habour ill intentions for everyone?

You can live a happier life if only you can reallize that every other person has the potentials to be as good as you can ever imagine that anyone can ever be. They too need a chance to feel welcome. Life is a process and your success in relating with others depends a lot on your perspective of those that sorround you.

Give yourself the right answer in every encounter with another to avoid disaster.

That’s one good approach to sort out issues amicably.
Accomodating others

Nnamonu Tochukwu.

About teeceecounsel

Who am I really? Can that be defined yet? Probably by the time I'm long gone and all the pieces of my activities are compiled and analysed then you can know what you want to know about me. Meanwhile, I write. Not because I love writing but because I love people. I love to care and love to share. I'm a deep thinker and I love to believe in the impossible. The ideal is attainable and a shot at it must be given. Don't say 'It won't work' rather ask 'how will it work? Nobody is ever doomed unless they made the choice. To resist good and to adopt evil is already doom. To loose hope is to choose doom but to believe that every step is a passing phase leading towards your hope is to choose progress. I may go on and on but my posts say it all. I don't force you to agree, I only say enjoy!
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4 Responses to Impressions Matter

  1. kewsmith says:

    I agree whole-heartedly. Nice post.

  2. Liz Mason says:

    Great point. Good reminder.

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