Just Talking? Start Succeeding!

Stop Arguing; Succeed!

What contribution has winning or loosing an argument made towards your personal success?

People are willing to learn only when they see reason to believe that you’ve got something different. Yes, something that works.

Almost anybody can talk, it takes much more than just talking to succeed.

Have some evidence to backup your philosophies before expecting people to develop an interest in what you have to say. Except ofcourse you are specially gifted with talking.

Come out from among them, distinguish yourself by succeeding and let them see for themselves.

Most arguments arouse emotions or better put, agression. They consume time and energy unnecessarily. An exception ofcourse is a negotiation. You must have your objectives properly spelt out and creatively chart your path to meeting them all. Like an artist, you should be able to paint a vivid picture and using words, get those around to see it.
Negotiation is an art. Be skillful with it. Words are not meant to be wasted, don’t waste them!

It’s not wrong to talk, only be sure you have an aim.
It’s neither wrong to prove a point, just be sure you have an audience that is willing to learn.

Be a trail blazer, become outstanding and watch others clamour to tread the same path as you.

Once again, stop arguing; succeed!

Nnamonu Tochukwu.


About teeceecounsel

Who am I really? Can that be defined yet? Probably by the time I'm long gone and all the pieces of my activities are compiled and analysed then you can know what you want to know about me. Meanwhile, I write. Not because I love writing but because I love people. I love to care and love to share. I'm a deep thinker and I love to believe in the impossible. The ideal is attainable and a shot at it must be given. Don't say 'It won't work' rather ask 'how will it work? Nobody is ever doomed unless they made the choice. To resist good and to adopt evil is already doom. To loose hope is to choose doom but to believe that every step is a passing phase leading towards your hope is to choose progress. I may go on and on but my posts say it all. I don't force you to agree, I only say enjoy!
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6 Responses to Just Talking? Start Succeeding!

  1. i would like to argue this point πŸ˜‰ (just joking)

  2. Alphaeche says:

    So true! It’s often said “talk is cheap” but what they don’t tell is the cost of the forgone alternative.

    • Sure! That’s exactly the point. The cost of the forgone alternative! You sound like a professional economist. Good one!
      There’s just no need to talk at the expense of productivity.
      Thanks for that!

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