Your enemies are not only those that hate you but also those whose presence or actions set you back, whether or not they love you.
Stay away from them or atleast, keep them an arms length.
Not every sweet thing is good for you.
Learn to surround yourself with the things and people that move you foward while keeping your distance from those that distract and set you back.
Many people we tag ‘friends’ are actually ‘enemies’ not because they habour ill intensions but because we fail to manage our time properly once we are around them.
Do I sound harsh?
I’m not done yet.
Your favorite game could also be your enemy if you let it eat up all the time you have for things that are critical to your progress.
Don’t leave your best meal out of this!
I always love to say this; “Set Your Priorities Right!“. Doing otherwise would mean having loving enemies around you all the time.
And by the way, you can love your enemies!
Those that hate you would always try to plot your downfall and they do so by taking advantage of your weaknesses or capitallizing on loopholes.
They keep you onguard, make you upright and keep you on your toes.
Loving enemies are also those who may habour ill intensions against you but all their effort moves you foward, I will choose to tag these ones “hating friends”. They may be hating but their results would never have come from some loving friends because they wouldn’t want to hurt your feelings at the expense of progress.
With our well intending friends; “loving enemies” and our ill intending enemies “hating friends”, hovering around us each day, we just have to play our cards well and standout as an example for them. Love them all by succeeding and not by complaining or grumbling.
There are loving enemies all around; don’t let them stop you, keep going.