The human being’s default settings has “self defence” turned on.
The implication is simple; blame must be transfered to other people.
The ability to see your personal contribution to a misfortune and to take responsibility of it is wisdom.
Fools never find a fault in themselves, so they never change.
Wise people examine the consequences of their actions and make the necessary adjustments to create the required results.
To blame another is to maim yourself and to insist on the blame is to get lame.
Don’t look outwards when things keep going wrong, look inwards. Check your default configurations and ensure that it is not set to ‘self destruct’.
Even if other people are instrumental to a misfortune, only personal responsibility can introduce recovery.
Quit finding faults in fellow fault finders, become exceptional by default.
If your default settings are working against you, change them!