Why Treat All Men Equal?

[Allocating The Right Proportion]
Whoever said everyone should be treated equal?

Please never waste your precious time trying to force your precious words on people who are not willing to hear.

Everyone is unique and it has it’s consequences. Just as somethings that some people do can never be appealing to you, somethings you do can also never be appealing to some people.

You wear yourself out when you want to force yourself on people.
Rather be yourself and keep doing your thing in your own way.
You don’t need to bother about poor response; be consistent. In only a while, the ones that value your relevance will be attracted to you.

Never assume that you have to pursue everyone in the world around; you will spread yourself so thin and end up achieving nothing.

Concentrate your effort on the people that thirst for what you have to offer.

All fingers may not be equal but they each have their roles to play.
Neglect none, neither treat any with disregard but be sure to keep expressing your uniqueness to the ones it makes sense to. By so doing, only time will position you in heights that you could never have imagined.

By the way, effectively reaching one person with the things you do far outweighs pursuing numerous people and reaching none.

No wonder they say “a bird at hand is better than a thousand elsewhere”

Value the little that value you and give them all the attention that you can afford, soon they will not only value you but they will replicate what you are doing and carry your flag.
Your relevance will survive generations after you.
Now, what could beat that?

Let the things that appeal to you in life be the things of true value.
Practice those things that appeal to you and that are of true value consistently and those who seek things that are of true value will find both you and the things you do appealling.

This is the simple key to fulfiling your purpose.

Apply the same principle when you want more productivity.
Focus more on the more productive and your productivity will increase.
Invest most in the product that sells most, give more of your time to the things that give you more fulfilment, and associate more with those that share the same interest with you or atleast appreciate your uniqueness. There is always a critical few that make the most of the difference, find them and give them the most of your attention.
Once again I can say “treat everyone with regard”. But to treat all men equal? That will mean throwing precious things to pigs sometimes.
That doesn’t sound cool right? Unfortunately that’s what it really is.
I should rephrase to “fortunately” for those who have been looking for a way to reduce waste of their precious time.
Why treat all men equal? Some are husbands and some are just friends. Some are opportunists and yet some are mentors.
What a man is to you determines what he can get from you.
The same goes for a woman.
Be careful who you give what, not all things weigh the same neither does everyone.
Or don’t you think so too?

Nnamonu Tochukwu.


About teeceecounsel

Who am I really? Can that be defined yet? Probably by the time I'm long gone and all the pieces of my activities are compiled and analysed then you can know what you want to know about me. Meanwhile, I write. Not because I love writing but because I love people. I love to care and love to share. I'm a deep thinker and I love to believe in the impossible. The ideal is attainable and a shot at it must be given. Don't say 'It won't work' rather ask 'how will it work? Nobody is ever doomed unless they made the choice. To resist good and to adopt evil is already doom. To loose hope is to choose doom but to believe that every step is a passing phase leading towards your hope is to choose progress. I may go on and on but my posts say it all. I don't force you to agree, I only say enjoy!
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11 Responses to Why Treat All Men Equal?

  1. buckwheatsrisk says:

    that was so refreshing to read, and removes some the guilt i was battling with today! thank you so much for this post!

  2. stuartart says:

    A lot of wisdom there my friend. 🙂

  3. saymber says:

    The writer Shakti Gawain talks about this a bit in her books. Usually when we come across people like you are describing we are looking into the mirror of the person we use to be or still are. It’s unpleasant sometimes to be confronted by our shadow side.

    • We sure have a future. Life is a process and so far as we keep moving, we will reach our desired destination. We were not meant to please everyone. Trying to do that will simply mean spreading ourselves too thin. We can always improve and be more efficient with those that we ought to reach. Cheers! Keep advancing towards the mark.

  4. 4amWriter says:

    Great thoughts. I struggle to keep up with all my blogging and commenting on as many as I can. The message in this post has balanced me, reminding me it is far better to comment sincerely and thoughtfully on one blog than “like” 200 blogs.

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