I try to pause and reflect before saying or doing something….before reacting….to keep these criteria in mind….
Is is expressed without harshness?
Is it well intended?
Is it beneficial?
Is it timely?
Is it true?
And if what I’m about to say or do doesn’t meet those criteria, to use restraint in choosing whether it should be said or done…..and usually I find it better to wait….
And a shorter version of that…..
this is sometimes referred to as “wise speech”…..
reflecting, considering and making a wise choice…..
is it kind?….is it helpful?
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Another version of this “page,”with a sky photo: “Wise Speech: Is it kind, is it helpful?”
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That’s a good one. Reflect. 🙂
Oh sure! Good one to reflect upon.
Very nice!! So true….just to think before we speak . 🙂
Sure! It would eliminate a lot of argument and misunderstanding. Good yard-stick for measuring the thoughts we make before speaking. Thanks!
Very wise words you have here this morning, and beautifully said.
Thanks much for appreciating! Words have power and using them well makes life a lot better.
If only I had discovered this earlier in life. I do it now, but when I was younger….not so much. 😦
It’s good to know that you do it now. Let’s hope that even young people learn these things early enough. Knowing things like this and doing them ensures harmony and warmth among people. It beautifies life and relationships.
Wonderful wise words of wisdom; thanks for sharing! 🙂
You’re always welcome. Thanks for the encouraging comments.