Rejection Rejected

Rejecting rejection is very possible, getting that done is to have gotten rejection rejected.
Getting no for an answer is what many consider as rejection and it is not the end of the world!
Not every cause is worth a fight and not every point is worth a proof.
Yet some issues are matters of life and death and some matters are issues that can’t be swept under a carpet.
“Life does not give what you deserve” they say, rather “life gives what you demand”. Simply put, you get what you want by rejecting rejection.
When one door shuts, find other open ones. And if there are none, find the key. But there sure is a way to get passed a No. Yes! There is a way to reject rejection.
How crucial is your point? Is it worth pushing?
Then why sit and cry when you can walk away, or why walk away when you can press harder and grab the whole catch!
There seems to be many philosophies to life. “Let it go” they’ll say “and if it’s meant for you, it will come back to you”. That’s an option. How much longer would you wait and allow it to be delivered to you?
“Get rich or die trying” is another popular saying. A man in this category keeps on pursuing the dream and prefers to die in the quest, rather than live without the trophy. Such determination, is one form of rejecting rejection.

Negociation is one powerful key that unlocks many doors. What makes you think you cannot get beyond that point? The only reason is that you’ve not presented your case in the best way to suit the desires of the one who has said “no”. Give him a bait and he’ll swallow the hook. Life is more beautiful than it seems, so instead of begging, think! Offer a service and get paid. Provide some solution and you would have provided for yourself some amenities. You have something legitimate that the other person would pay anything to have. Find it and with it walk through your closed door. Life has many paths and many points. Whenever your point is worth proving, find the path that will grant you access to your destination. Don’t doubt it, there is always another way! You can reject rejection. Negociation may just hand you the very trophy that neither crying nor fighting, quitting nor compromising could give you.
Cheer up and just get beyond that “no” or find a worthy cause to embark on with all you’ve got and you would have rejected rejection!

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About teeceecounsel

Who am I really? Can that be defined yet? Probably by the time I'm long gone and all the pieces of my activities are compiled and analysed then you can know what you want to know about me. Meanwhile, I write. Not because I love writing but because I love people. I love to care and love to share. I'm a deep thinker and I love to believe in the impossible. The ideal is attainable and a shot at it must be given. Don't say 'It won't work' rather ask 'how will it work? Nobody is ever doomed unless they made the choice. To resist good and to adopt evil is already doom. To loose hope is to choose doom but to believe that every step is a passing phase leading towards your hope is to choose progress. I may go on and on but my posts say it all. I don't force you to agree, I only say enjoy!
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4 Responses to Rejection Rejected

  1. Adding to this : love starts with a happy feeling with no demands but ends when this happy feeling comes after demand.

  2. True! Love is much deeper than feelings though. It is neither sustained by demand nor reciprocation. It’s much more like a joyful responsibility! Thanks for that!

  3. fgassette says:

    AMEN! Your point it well taken.

    BE ENCOURAGED! BE BLESSED!

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