How intentional are you towards achieving your dreams?
What specific steps are you taking towards accomplishing your goals?
Have you realized that there are always tasks to complete before results emerge?
Have you made effort to identify the necessary actions for your quest?
Are you doing anything consistently to ensure that you have not abandoned your dreams?
If you sincerely answer these questions, you will realize that you need to get committed to what you consider your priority.
You are not alone in this.
Let us put creative thought and practical action consistently towards achieving our dreams; only then can we emerge with phenomenal results.
Get committed now to make effort, work hard and be Intentional.
A post to motivate you.
We Did It!
There is so much joy that comes from accomplishing, especially when so much effort and expectations preceded.
How often are you delighted that your dishes are washed or that your laundry is done?
How excited are you when your results are excellent or when you are receiving a certificate?
Only the other day, we were preparing but today we can look back and be glad that it is done.
Yes, we did it!
I wouldn’t want you to ever give up on doing the right thing, especially because there is nothing to celebrate in quitting.
Take each step boldly, make each consultation thoroughly, do the needful dutifully and expect the best to play out.
Sometimes, things don’t go exactly as planned but whenever we give our best to planning and implementing, there is always a unique joy and excitement that accompanies accomplishing.
Yes, we did it! You can do it.
Preparing for The Event
What runs through your mind as the day approaches?
Are you tensed or excited?
Is there some level of anxiety or is everything absolutely normal as they always have been?
I may not be able to say for certain whether your disposition is right or wrong but I can tell you that it is natural.
Does it really matter, how you feel?
I think it does.
Sometimes, feelings affect responses.
The way you feel about an offer could affect whether you’ll accept it or decline it.
If you have to select from numerous proposals, wouldn’t you be influenced by how each proposition makes you feel?
You probably don’t realize the effect of your disposition on the upcoming event because you don’t think that it matters.
How many times have you had to regret giving up or overreacting?
How many times have you become indifferent because of other people’s actions or inactions?
Make that decision that this one has to be different.
Tell yourself that you just have to be the best of yourself, and be it.
Just do it, especially because it is beneficial to all and because you can.
Preparing for the Event
Preparing for the wedding or event
Do you react or do you respond?
Reaction may be by reflex and could be spontaneous but a response should be a well thought expression or action.
Panic may be a reaction to certain circumstances but caution and vigilance could be the response.
Our reactions may contradict our ideals but we must learn to take responsibility and respond appropriately.
I have caught myself being rude or inconsiderate in situations where I am in a huge hurry. I try not to defend my actions. I rather apologise for my rashness and express my gratitude where I failed to.
I have witnessed people scream in fright only to realize that there was no danger. That’s a perfect example of a reaction. If I catch myself in their shoes, I would express the fact that it was spontaneous and apologize for the scene I may have created. I would make extra effort to ensure that similar circumstances would not trigger the same unwanted expression.
We have relationships where we expect our partners to understand our reactions, where as, often times; they don’t.
We have taken certain decisions at certain times, in response to certain things that happened, without communicating our reason effectively to other parties involved.
The beauty of relationship is communication.
Don’t make an assumption that he knows you are hot tempered; apologise to him.
Don’t assume that she would understand that you were in a hurry; let her know that she deserves your attention.
Don’t tell yourself that it has passed and you should move ahead; the same pattern may become a habit.
Make effort to refer to the flawed reaction and respond appropriately.
Do the right thing and keep doing it because practice makes perfect.
Keep responding appropriately until your ideal response becomes your natural reflex reaction.
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Plan to Respond Not React
One day; while still living with my dad in Enugu, I had the wedding of a bosom friend to attend on a Saturday morning in PortHarcourt.
It was the last Saturday of the month which had 7am to 10am dedicated to a cleanup exercise prohibiting movement during those stipulated hours.
Terrorism and accidents were in vogue at the time.
Daddy insisted that I should not make the trip because he could neither provide transportation nor security and I was resorting to go by public transport.
He did not want me to be exposed to the risk of encountering danger.
My mind was made up and all I needed was to convince him logically while I should dare.
The facts were clear and all I could do for a while was stare.
Finally I realized that my point was glaring but though.
I was about trading living with the fear of dying; then I spoke up.
I said; sharing this special moment with my friend means so much to me that depriving myself the privilege will simply be depriving myself some of the essence of living.
I added; it is better I die attempting to get fulfillment than live avoiding the challenges that stand in the way.
The words were so strong and seemed to have fitted a military procession better than a request for permission to make a trip to attend a wedding.
Of course my request was granted without hesitation.
I made the trip and even though I arrived very late because I had to take off after the cleanup exercise; I had the fun of my life and my presence was much appreciated.
Years have passed and dad has passed on, yet I realize that we are often faced with situations that demand us to trade our living with the fear of death.
It is a new year and we have to be ready.
We cannot continue doing the same things the same way and keep expecting different results.
We do or do not do certain things out of fear of failure.
It is a mindset.
We must have the right mindset to be ready for the new year.
It is not about the things that we have adopted in our new year resolution; it is about the paradigm shift that will truly make a difference.
One thing must kill a man but what legacy does he leave behind?
Everybody will die someday but at the end would it be that we succeeded in avoiding the threats that could annihilate us or that we stood by what we believed and did the things that we ought to do?
Protect the lives of your fellow human beings.
Be bold and courageous.
That is simply what it takes to be ready for the new year.
Happy New Year!
Be Ready for the New Year.
The time has come to start separating yourself from the crowd.
If everybody was like everyone else, there wouldn’t be great innovations to enjoy.
The music we listen to, the movies we watch, the vehicles we admire, the gadgets we enjoy, the stories we read and all the lovely things that make life tick, were pieced together by individuals like you and I, who distinguished themselves by committing to unique tasks that make a difference.
You are unique and you have all it takes to standout.
You don’t have to insist on trends because all your friends have subscribed.
You don’t have to cluster in the mall because everyone else does that.
Why do we flood the schools and end up loosing creativity?
Why do we all have jobs and are broke the bulk of the time?
We may feel that we belong, simply because we get along with the trends but life is not just about belonging.
Every early morning; workers crowd the staff bus while students crowd the school bus and it never ends.
Are you interested in quantity or in quality?
You have so much inside of you that can make people yearn for you.
You have enough within you to keep you both entertained and provided for.
Why suffer from boredom when you are gifted with creativity?
Why seek solace in rowdiness when solitude can suffice?
“come out from among them and be ye separate”.
It is time to say to yourself;
“He that is in me is greater than he that is in the world”.
The treasure we seek far away are within our reach.
Don’t despise what you have in a bid to seek what you want; you might end up loosing both.
Groom what you already have and grow it.
You can only gather much by ensuring that non is lost.
If drops of water can make a mighty ocean and the journey of a thousand miles can begin with a step, then we must value every moment, every talent and every person that life has brought our way.
I would cherish a walk with my loved one over a ride with the crowd.
I will relish the moments in my closet that prepares me for the stage over the ones that perpetually leaves me as a spectator with the crowd.
It is not easy to standout; that’s how difficult it is to be yourself.
The path to the top might just be lonely, simply because it is not often trod.
“The path often trod not always the route to success”
Separate Yourself From The Crowd
If life is only lived once, I don’t think it would be smart to gamble with it or to leave everything completely to chance. Each moment must be spent either enjoying the things that give us fulfilment or creating the path that will convey us to perpetual fulfilment.
If in our life time, we can do the things we like, buy the things we want and stay in places that we enjoy with the people that we love, how much happier and more fulfilled would we be than we are right now?
You are unique!
Your dreams may be different from mine.
What everyone else aspires for may not be appealing to me. That’s why when we say; do the right thing at the right time, it may just mean different things to different people.
It may be tough to convince the world that you are different but that’s not your job to do. Just be yourself and they will see for themselves.
Rather than spend time arguing or feeling hurt that your ideas are not as appreciated as you imagined they would be, concentrate on refining them for the few that appreciate and creating an environment where truth will be upheld with freedom and love.
It is easier for the world to convince us that we are just like everyone else, than to further confuse us with difference in skin colours and languages, creating the impression that we have to struggle to be noticed or to compete to be distinguished.
We must not make the mistake of spending our lives competing with others, we must rather collaborate to enjoy the life of our dreams.
When we can be there for each other, we can indeed live our dream life!
Every Moment Is A Building Block For Your Dream Life.